HW # 57

What should be the social arrangements? An extended family, nuclear family, a village, corporate day care?
the family arrangement for a family is go to school, go to college, get a job start a family that is the human circle of life.

What should be the guiding principles? Love? Obedience? Loving obedience? Humor? Empowerment? Subordination? Time outs? Separate cribs or co-sleeping? Breast feeding or bottle? Child-centered or parent-centered? etc.
all of these count because once in everybodies they will have to deal with one of these situaition to make a family

What were the best parts of how you were parented (since the worst parts don't really belong in a public class blog)?
i would have to say my parents forcing me into independence me having to find an get everything for my self an me being thought how to control myself an not get crazy like a lot of kids out there

How do you think you'd parent if you're put in that position?
i would be a understanding parent but also a parent that knows how to have fun an get serious at the same time

Do you think babies should be treated more like adults or like puppies?
i dont think they should be treated like adults i think they should be treated like there 5 because they do understand what is going on but cant not do anything like a 5 year old. they deff should not be treated like a puppy because thats just wrong. they are humans they should be treated like 1.

Do you think parenting will "come naturally" or do you think you'll have to research multiple perspectives and come up with a (possibly evolving) model in collaboration with other family members? Did your family read books about how to parent you or do informal research such as talking to other family members?
i think there are somethings i would have to look up but a lot of things will come naturally. but me as a parent to a new born kid i would prob let my parents take care of it an when it gets a lil older.

HW #54

i also didnt feel comfortable to post my result because i dont think it would matter

i notice that people have different personalities than they say to you but they have different ones on paper when they know that no bodies who is saying what is on the paper

HW # 53

part 2
i felt fully comfortable about taking the survey i felt that taking the survey was a good way to let out somethings that i had in me for a while. but i do not feel comfortable saying it on this.

part 3
from seeing the result from Wednesday i can see that for some of the sexual question a lot of people answer only what people would like to hear because i know that if you asked that person gf or bf they would not agree with what they put down.

part 4
well i can see that there results was determined by how the reacted a week before an after the survey

HW #52

well in a family situation it is either love or hate. living with a family is stress full also because somedays when you need space they always want to be there but you just want to be to your self. an we can not avoid them because we live with them family is one thing you can not get rid of. while friends on the other hand are the people that you would talk to when you do not feel like talking to your family people act like this because somethings are easyer to tell friends besides family an the other way around. in a bf an gf husband an wife side of the story it is sapost to be all love an if there are any problems you can get trough it but some people just can not take it an they can not be together with other person. i think we all do this because it is in the gods hand book of life, our lives are planed already like they say everything happens for a reason you would not have broken up with you gf or bf or leave your family or drop a friend for no reason.

in my family it was a tug of war of power my mom always thought she had the power but that is not how it sapost to be in a family everybody is sapost to be equal as humans because when 1 person in the family starts trying to get all the power that makes the other people feel like there below an they will rebel against her or that person.

in a friendship the friends have equal power people are drawn into the people that they can connect to. if one of the friends try to get more power than the other it creates problems between them 2 an that can lead into a fight. with guys the fight is usaualy about girls with girl is uaualy about guys or some other reason that i do not know. guys are easy to explan because i am one an we do not fight over dumb things we know how to make up an still be cool girls just hold grudges forever. if im wrong about the girls please comment.

i think our whole world should life as just friendly, no races acts an just no problems with any race other than there own. but if the world was like that our lives would be boring. come on you got to admit that our lives are based off of racism, with out it who knows how life would be. being at s.o.f made me open my eyes to different races only because they are around me everyday so you get use to it.

my theories of love is that u gotta hate somebody to love them or thats how i saw it from my family i am not saying that, that is the way i think about me an my gf but just as i was growing up i heard the word hate a lot in my family. also what i mean by you have to hate somebody to love them is because you have to like all aspect of that person you can not only like the nice part of the person you gotta also be able to coup with the bad part to. if you can do that the realtionship to me should last. my parents just could get along.